Monday, March 15, 2010

p.s I LOVE U!



i wish i cud watch dat muvie even cite ni been published 2007 if im not mistaken.anyone yg ade let me borrow it from u all..huu~

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

etika

erk.bile datang rajin update blog sehari smpi 3 entry aku post.:))
oke,nk ckp skit pasal etika. etika leh la didefinisikan sbg ilmu berkenaan dasar-dasar akhlak atau moral.aku siap googled lg.hee.fine kt sini aku juz nk pertikaikn segelintir sikap manusia yg sgt la tidak beretikanyer.aku tau mereka x perfect bgitu jugak aku tp kdg2 bnda kecik yg leh wat aku naek angin coz aku sgt la pantang org yg x beretika ni atau dlm bahasa kasarnyer x beradap.mulela aku akn mengomel sorg2 n kdg2 menyumpah2 dlm hati.menyumpah dlm hati dosa x ek?..

yg pertama:
mereka2 ini yg selalo sgt kurang prihatin buang smph sesuka hti.mslhnyer bkn plstik gula2 tp pembalut roti.umang ai,besa kn plstik tu nk men baling jer.ceit,kiteorg nmpk kot korg buang tuh.huh,mcm bdk2 sekolah jer.padahal msg2 da bsr.

yg kedua:
beratur kat atm mcm nk cium org kt dpn.aku slalo sgt kna da ni.asal pusing blkg jer lg bape inci konpem nk tercium ngn org blkng.haish,cubalah que tu jauh2 skit.xdenyer org nk ptong que awk akak oi.konpem org2 mcm tu akn nmpk aku wat muka ketat sesumph ketatnyer bile aku da settle amik duit segala bagai.jgn la dkt2,sbb xde etika namenyer tu.

yg ketiga:
mereka2 ni yg nk mtk tolong bru la knal yg aku ni selevel dgnyer,sewing dgnyer or same kolej dgn die.padahal before jmp senyum pon ssh.aku tau dah hlg pahala when aku persoalkn all these things tapiiiiiiiiiiii kan if korg baik jer sebelom ni,jmp tgor say "hi akk" ke,konpem aku sgt willing nk tolong korg dgn seikhlas hatinyer.ini x,jmp kt dpn blik senyom pon nk x nk jer.haish,manusia oh manusia!

yg keempat:
our first meeting or discussion tros da kuakn bahasa penggnti diri "ko" dan "aku" bagai.aku ngaku aku pon x la jenis lemah lembut n sopan santun tu sume tp if aku bru knl org tu for sure aku xkn bahasakn diri as "aku".ini sbbnyer penggunaan "aku" tu sgt kasar bg sesetgh org yg kesah pasl adab ni sume.buatnyer org yg kite ckp tu lg tua kn da melampau batas tu.....

yg kelima:
memandang sesama manusia dgn ketidakpuasan hatinyer.fine,ini slalo terjd.haih,mgkin korg ni jenis rabun kot.tu yg dok memeta org ats bwh dgn "kerek"skali ea.bile hal mcm ni jd for sure aku pon turut serta memandang kalian dgn begitu.malahan lebih pelik lg.hehehe


uh,if aku nk list bnyk bnda yg perlu kitamasing2 perbaiki including me.selain dr aku luahkn apa yg tidak puas hati dgn etika kalian,aku pon turut igtkn dri sndri supaya x berbuat mcm tu..sbb yg buruk tu sumenyer dtg dr kite n yg baik sumenyer dtg dr Allah S.W.T.:))


p/s:perlu wujudkn subject etika kot kt UiTM nih.:p

rinduuuuuuuuuuuuu!


saying.."im,sorry" is the most powerful words~


Share and Ponder

In every relationship there will be occasional misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Sometimes we are the one who hurt another person we care about; sometimes we are the one who has been hurt.

Hurt feelings will occur in friendships, in intimate relationships, and even between two acquaintances that barely know each other.

Sometimes both people have become very angry at each other, or both feel hurt.

Hurt feelings can be the result of a slip of the tongue, a misunderstanding, or a deed committed in bad judgment. Sometimes feelings are hurt deliberately in the heat of anger and regretted later.

If we were the guilty party, we might regret what we said the instant we let the hurtful remark out of our mouths. We might want to apologize right away, but some of us find apologizing about anything extremely difficult, almost impossible.

Sometimes the reason we don’t apologize is because we are convinced that the other person totally deserved our angry outburst. Sometimes the reason we don’t apologize is because we have absolutely no idea that we hurt the other person. And sometimes we apologize very profusely, but we don’t really mean it.

Many of us are not good at handling hurt feelings. Some of us try to pretend nothing ever happened and keep on going without acknowledging there was ever a problem. Some people find it almost impossible to say those magic words, “I’m sorry” while others throw out their apologies so easily, that there is no truth behind them.

When you sincerely apologize to a friend or loved one, it means that you sincerely regret causing the other person emotional pain, and you want to work on repairing the relationship.

If you have said or done something that hurt your friend or partner, it is important to acknowledge your loved one’s painful emotions. You can say something like,
“I’m so sorry you feel hurt because of what I said. I didn’t mean to hurt you. Let’s talk about what happened.”

In some relationships, hurt feelings and problems are never dealt with. Instead, they get “swept under the rug”. These relationships may look polite on the surface and they may even be long-lived, but they are not really very intimate. There is no deep sharing between the two people and there is no ability to be honest.

If one, or both of you, are feeling very angry with the other, put off your in-depth discussion until both of you are to be calm and levelheaded. But apologize to your friend sincerely as soon as you can.

An apology that is coupled with a sincere promise to avoid the upsetting behavior in the future is much more likely to succeed. An apology that is just thrown out casually, with no sincere remorse or promise to do better, is a signal that the other person does not truly value the relationship. In fact, this sort of meaningless apology is a red flag that this person cannot really be trusted.

Once an apology for a particular incident has been extended and accepted, don’t go back and revisit old battles the next time you have a disagreement. Take care of each incident as it comes up and don’t nurse old resentments.

If you make a sincere apology every time you have hurt another person, the relationship has a much better chance to survive.

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~~~Whatever mountains stands in your path,
Whatever obstacle blocks your way,
Whatever difficulty immobilized you,
The prayer full of faith can remove it~~~.

~~~Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.~~~




p/s: i got this one thru email and after u read it,u'll feel wanna scream and say, "hey,im sorry!"

Sunday, March 7, 2010

adam danish kesayangan!

penyeri idup family inchi mansor skng ni.sume org tertumpu kt adam danish,cian cu na ngn cu ni da x jd bongsu lg.hehe


i)danish pon da pndi wat muke amik gmbr..:))




ii)tiutnyer!!!


iii)ha,ni yg pling geram ni!

a new hair cut.

akhirnyer rambut ku panjang.lame btol nk tggu rmbut pnjg,mcm da berabad2 lmenyer.tp da pnjg skit mcm nk potong pule.gatal!:))
i still remember when sumone ask me to have a long hair compared to my old style of bob cut.n now rmbut gue da pjg tau.ladies u!

Monday, March 1, 2010

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